One of my friends at the barn where I keep my horse has to put her horse down (euthanise him)tomorrow, and the whole barn is sad. Her horse had a freak accident in the ring, and because of his unique make-up, the healing process just never took place in the way it should have, and now with one leg hobbled for many months, his other leg is wearing out. His health is perfect except for this - heart, lungs, and mind are young and healthy.
It has been amazing to see her go through the last act of horse "parenthood" - making the decision to end his journey now that he is feeling pain. My friend talks softly to him, cleans his stall lovingly, and feeds him all the things he loves as the days trickle down to tomorrow, his last day. To me, it is in their silence, when standing together, that they say volumes to one another, as they prepare to say goodbye. As we talked and shed a tear or two together recently, she said, "Just due to a horses' mere size, they have such a presence in your life. And when they accept you, and offer you their love, that size breaks your heart, in a way."
This is for Heather, and Midnight, and to a relationship I was blessed to see, and won't forget, ever.
"Somewhere" by Stanley Harrison
Somewhere in time's own space
there must be some sweet pastured place
where creeks sing on and tall trees grow,
some paradise where horses go.
For by the love that guides my pen,
I know great horses live again.
Deirdre is a senior writer for LifeZette. The Blend is a mix of humor, social commentary and frequent whimsy for the modern Average Joe who doesn't have time for anything...but through New Media has time for everything.
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